Things have changed a little.
Non-Dom has withdrawn consent and rewarded my honesty with a lie. Those who don't agree with my choices and view my dalliance with Local D as not in keeping with any commitment I might have with Non-Dom will no doubt say 'well what did you expect L?'
I suppose I expected the consideration of the truth and honesty that I had (and he had) committed to.
So life moves on and have made a decision. I am not ready to give up local D. He is answering a need that I cannot leave unanswered. So for the first time in my life with Non-Dom, I have lied to him. Omitting to tell him that I continue to see local D.
I am defiant in this.
Enough said...my journey continues.