One thing that troubles me, that makes me wonder about TTWD and the dynamic of giving yourself completely to another's control...is what happens when it ends?
There have been a few blogs usually by submissive women that for what ever reason have parted from their Dom, their Master, their Daddy (sharp breath). Some women pour out their hearts in text and they are broken, crumpled.
A question I have always struggled with and wondered about. What happens in the end, if there is an end?
A submissive is asked to give everything to her / his Dom(me). Everything, all control. All control is given, all decision making in some cases and there are those examples of financial submission. Submission in this way, in my view, changes who we once were. A journey of discovery and learning but also change. So in the end is there any responsibility for a D to transition out of the relationship. To make sure that their former sub will be OK emotionally; to know how they should navigate the financial predicament they may find themselves in? After all a D has led his s here to this place.
I acknowledge that there are degrees of submission and these are negotiated between a D and their s. So a split or ending may not be as complex as I imagine. Interesting to ponder though. I see a few blogs with sub women in this situation and they are emotionally fragile. It could be argued that this is a condition of all relationship breakdowns whether vanilla or TTWD, but is there a difference, when all control has been handed to your Dom? Is there a responsibility for a Dom to protect their sub from harm while transitioning out of a relationship...or is the clean break the best way?