the artist formerly known as little precious one. Walking the submissive path, there are doubts, there are troubles and there is decidedly a lot of fun.
Please forgive me if this comes off as preachy - it is advice that many, many people gave me, over and over again, when i was just discovering myself and waiting/hoping/yearning for my husband to figure out how it could all work for him. I had it bad - sub frenzy, completely obsessed, and swingng back and forth between wanting everything i had read about or gotten a taste of, and despairing of any of it working out. He steadfastly did everything he did - his way, his speed, his pace. It was often infuriating, discouraging, all that. But in the end, it really was the best way, the only way for me really believe in him. What he does and the way he does it isn't what i had in mind or thought i wanted, but in the end - i want him to lead, so where he goes, i follow. i also found that when i stopped pushing for my way were the times he listened best and heard what i felt i needed. I really hope you two find a way that is yours.
GGmany thanks..i appreciate your words.
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